Comments on: When “I” Becomes “We” https://www.marshmallowranch.com/when-i-becomes-we/ She traded her tiara for wings and a pickup Wed, 05 Jul 2017 12:39:42 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: Ginny McKinney https://www.marshmallowranch.com/when-i-becomes-we/#comment-1953 Wed, 05 Jul 2017 12:39:42 +0000 http://www.marshmallowranch.com/?p=1324#comment-1953 In reply to Lisa H..

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]]> By: Lisa H. https://www.marshmallowranch.com/when-i-becomes-we/#comment-1939 Tue, 04 Jul 2017 14:16:42 +0000 http://www.marshmallowranch.com/?p=1324#comment-1939 This is a beautiful post and brought tears to my eyes. Wishing you and Mr. FixIt much joy as you walk the road of life together.

]]> By: Lou https://www.marshmallowranch.com/when-i-becomes-we/#comment-1931 Mon, 03 Jul 2017 22:25:38 +0000 http://www.marshmallowranch.com/?p=1324#comment-1931 I am crying now because your words are so heartfelt. So happy for you. You are truly an inspiration. God bless you and your new love.

]]> By: Ginny McKinney https://www.marshmallowranch.com/when-i-becomes-we/#comment-1923 Mon, 03 Jul 2017 15:49:31 +0000 http://www.marshmallowranch.com/?p=1324#comment-1923 In reply to Cis.

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]]> By: Cis https://www.marshmallowranch.com/when-i-becomes-we/#comment-1920 Mon, 03 Jul 2017 14:35:32 +0000 http://www.marshmallowranch.com/?p=1324#comment-1920 I have enjoyed reading your blogs. Your journey is an amazing one.
Delighted that you have reconnected with “Mr. Fix-It”.
“God always sends the right person to cross your path at just the perfect time!”
You will always have “Mr. Virgo” and KUDOS to “Mr. Fix-It” for realizing that a woman’s heart can love two men and still be wonderful!
Happy Trails Together!

]]> By: Carol Griffith https://www.marshmallowranch.com/when-i-becomes-we/#comment-1918 Mon, 03 Jul 2017 14:23:28 +0000 http://www.marshmallowranch.com/?p=1324#comment-1918 In reply to Ginny McKinney.

Well just go for it! I will be so interested in your journey so keep posting and I think I am pea-green jealous!

]]> By: Carol Risser https://www.marshmallowranch.com/when-i-becomes-we/#comment-1911 Mon, 03 Jul 2017 09:51:25 +0000 http://www.marshmallowranch.com/?p=1324#comment-1911 Ginny, I’m so happy for you! Life does go on and you will always carry Mr. Virgo in your heart and in your soul. He’s a part of you. A beautiful chapter in your life book. Go on and love again! I am certain Mr. Virgo is happy knowing you are happy again! But please keep writing! You are an inspiration to all! ❤️

]]> By: Ginny McKinney https://www.marshmallowranch.com/when-i-becomes-we/#comment-1910 Mon, 03 Jul 2017 06:57:32 +0000 http://www.marshmallowranch.com/?p=1324#comment-1910 In reply to Denise.

Very valid point, Denise and you and I are both right. Grief doesn’t have a rule book. There are so many phases of grief and they happen in no particular order. I know widows who have been perfectly fine after a year and I know others who struggle after twenty. Personally, I believe I will always be a widow, but I won’t always feel that pain. I might experience a wave out of nowhere…even though I’m perfectly happy with Mr. FixIt. I would never advise entering into a relationship with someone if you are still actively grieving. I hope this makes sense. ❤️

]]> By: Ginny McKinney https://www.marshmallowranch.com/when-i-becomes-we/#comment-1909 Mon, 03 Jul 2017 06:50:09 +0000 http://www.marshmallowranch.com/?p=1324#comment-1909 In reply to Phyllis Joslin.

Phyllis…I remember that explosion. It happened a couple of years before I moved to Glenwood Springs. What a terrible tragedy. I’ll be there in just a few weeks. I would love to meet you while I’m in town! ❤️

]]> By: Phyllis Joslin https://www.marshmallowranch.com/when-i-becomes-we/#comment-1908 Mon, 03 Jul 2017 06:04:19 +0000 http://www.marshmallowranch.com/?p=1324#comment-1908 Ginny, I so enjoy reading your posts. I am a widow from Glenwood Springs. My maiden name was Mincer and my husband was one of the 12 killed in the Rocky Mountain Natural Gas explosion. I have been able to relate to so much of what you have shared. You write so beautifully and with such insight. I too found someone after 16 years , even though I didn’t think I wanted someone new in my life. I believe things happen for a reason and that sometimes those we have lost have a helping hand in making us see life can be beautiful and full of love again. Congratulations on your new found happiness.

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