Comments on: What Is This Wet Stuff? https://www.marshmallowranch.com/what-is-this-wet-stuff/ She traded her tiara for wings and a pickup Mon, 16 Jul 2018 13:46:50 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: Ginny McKinney https://www.marshmallowranch.com/what-is-this-wet-stuff/#comment-6051 Mon, 16 Jul 2018 13:46:50 +0000 http://www.marshmallowranch.com/?p=4585#comment-6051 In reply to Pauline Colquhoun.

I don’t believe so, dear one. There seem to be social expectations surrounding the visitation of graves. But, for me, visiting and remembering and honoring are all as individualized as grief itself is. I have an aunt who has buried two husbands and, as far as I know, she has never visited anyone’s grave, let alone her two husbands’. You must always do what’s right for you and don’t beat yourself up over it. ❤️

]]> By: Pauline Colquhoun https://www.marshmallowranch.com/what-is-this-wet-stuff/#comment-6049 Mon, 16 Jul 2018 11:49:41 +0000 http://www.marshmallowranch.com/?p=4585#comment-6049 This post is very ironic for me. 31yrs. ago I life changed I lost the love of my life,father of my children. What is ironic is we have come back to No.Carolina for our doctor visits and see family and friends,but this is the first time I haven’t made the trip to his grave.i have felt alittle guilty that I haven’t done my wifely duty. This is the first time that I did not make it or planned a day to do so. Is this wrong of me?

Pauline

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