Exactly, dear one. Grief is a table for one. My heart is with you. ❤️

For me the most surprising and even upsetting public issue with my grief are those who think and give ‘advice’ that we should ‘get over it’. I find that so simplistic and uninformed. Who can say what or how or when, even if, a person grieves. I wish I could live down a lonely road, on a mountain, private, to grieve and relieve this horrible life switch in my own way, in my own time. I determined to just hold my head high, and disengage with those who would judge my grief.
When we speak, it should be from the basis of love, and love only. Thanks for letting me rant. This was a great piece of writing. Thunder, Lightning, Winds that crush and destroy trees, houses, business’s even Churches, are part of this world. Yes, one day it will be immortal in all ways. Until……If I grieve, I grieve.

❤️