Comments on: It’s Ok to Say…No! https://www.marshmallowranch.com/ok-say-no/ She traded her tiara for wings and a pickup Wed, 13 Dec 2017 06:11:05 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: Ginny McKinney https://www.marshmallowranch.com/ok-say-no/#comment-3631 Mon, 11 Dec 2017 03:03:48 +0000 http://www.marshmallowranch.com/?p=2141#comment-3631 In reply to Becky.

Bless your heart…I had such a similar experience to this. I can truly relate. Isn’t it so reassuring to know your aren’t alone? So many of us have had to do what you’re doing. There are no rule books on grief. You just have to do what feels right in your gut and hope people understand. And if they don’t, that’s ok. My mantra…”Selfcare is not selfish!” God bless you, dear one. You’re doing a difficult job you’ve been 100% successful at getting through it. ❤️

]]> By: Becky https://www.marshmallowranch.com/ok-say-no/#comment-3627 Sun, 10 Dec 2017 17:57:52 +0000 http://www.marshmallowranch.com/?p=2141#comment-3627 My husband died 6 months ago. I’m struggling with the holidays. I invited a large group of ladies over Friday to help me trim the tree. For the 3 days prior I was sick with the stomach flu, liquid spewing from all locations at once and no one to help clean up. This same week I had my bank account hacked into, spending hours trying to get my new bank account info to all the auto withdrawals. After 5 hours of Microsoft support trying to get my computer to accept an update, they had to reset it and I lost all my software, including Microsoft Office. My 2 year old refrigerator broke. Friday I awoke to a strong odor of chemicals in my garage that we can’t seem to find the source. Wednesday was the six month anniversary of his death. So while the ladies enjoyed the chili Friday night and decorated my tree for me, I just sat and cried. I cancelled a dinner and concert date last night at the last minute and stayed home to binge watch tv. It was very helpful to read your words this morning. Thank you for sharing.

]]> By: Ginny McKinney https://www.marshmallowranch.com/ok-say-no/#comment-3623 Sun, 10 Dec 2017 12:22:44 +0000 http://www.marshmallowranch.com/?p=2141#comment-3623 In reply to Sally.

❤️

]]> By: Sally https://www.marshmallowranch.com/ok-say-no/#comment-3622 Sun, 10 Dec 2017 03:35:16 +0000 http://www.marshmallowranch.com/?p=2141#comment-3622 AND you can always visit family in a month, or two or three, and they will be very happy to see you then whenever you are ready.

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